شناسایی تجارب زیسته والدین درباره اثرگذاری فرزندان بر زندگی خانوادگی

نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

1 دانشجوی دکتری تخصصی روانشناسی بالینی، پژوهشکده خانواده، دانشگاه شهیدبهشتی، تهران، ایران.

2 استادیار، گروه خانواده درمانی، پژوهشکده خانواده، دانشگاه شهیدبهشتی، تهران، ایران.

3 استاد، دانشکده علوم تربیتی و روانشناسی، دانشگاه شهیدبهشتی، تهران، ایران.

4 دانشیار، گروه خانواده درمانی، پژوهشکده خانواده، دانشگاه شهیدبهشتی، تهران، ایران.

5 دانشیار، دانشکده علوم تربیتی و روانشناسی، دانشگاه شهیدبهشتی، تهران، ایران.

10.48308/apsy.2021.222839.1089

چکیده

هدف: توجه به موضوع بچه‌دارشدن، به علت اثرگذاری زیاد آن بر زندگی خانوادگی افراد در دوران مختلف فرزندپروری، امری ضروری به شمار می‌رود. بنابراین، پژوهش حاضر با هدف شناسایی تغییرات ایجاد شده در زندگی خانوادگی که متاثر از بچه‌دارشدن است انجام شد. روش: 96 شرکت کننده زن و مرد متاهل  از شهر تهران، در گروه‌های مختلف سنی (بر اساس اصل اشباع داده ها) و با روش  نمونه‌گیری  هدفمند، از میان افراد دارای فرزند تازه متولد شده الی شش سال، والدین دارای فرزند دبستانی، والدین دارای فرزند نوجوان، و والدین دارای فرزندان بزرگسال مجرد و متاهل انتخاب شدند و با آن‌ها مصاحبه عمیق نیمه ساختاریافته انجام شد تا تجارب آنها در مورد فرزند داشتن شناسایی شود. مصاحبه‌ها با روش ون منن (رویکرد پدیدارشناسی تفسیری) مورد تحلیل قرار گرفتند. یافته‌ها: مضامینی تحت عنوان "ورود فرزند به زندگی"، "از آب و گل درآمدن"، "آغاز مدرسه"، "نوجوانی: پلی بین کودکی و بزرگسالی"، "اتمام نوجوانی: ورود به دنیای بزرگسالی"، و "خروج فرزندان از منزل" استخراج شدند. نتیجه گیری: در نهایت می‌توان نتیجه گرفت که تغییراتی که در هر دوره از زندگی خانوادگی، به واسطه تأثیر فرزندان رخ می‌دهد، گستره عظیمی شامل مدیریت مسائل مربوط به خود فرزندان تا اثرات حضور آنها بر مسائل مالی، روابط زناشویی، تعاملات اجتماعی و غیره را در بر میگیرد.

کلیدواژه‌ها

عنوان مقاله [English]

Identifying the Lived Experiences of Parents About the Impact of Children on Family Life

نویسندگان [English]

  • Maryam Falahatpishe Baboli 1
  • Fereshte Mootabi 2
  • Mohammadali Mazaheri 3
  • Leili Panaghi 4
  • Mahmood Heydari 5
1 Ph. D. Candidate of clinical psychology, Family Research Institute, Shahid Beheshti University, Tehran, Iran
2 Assistant Professor, Family Research Institute, Shahid Beheshti University, Tehran, Iran.
3 Professor, Faculty of Education and Psychology, Shahid Beheshti University, Tehran, Iran.
4 Associate Professor, Family Research Institute, Shahid Beheshti University, Tehran, Iran.
5 Associate Professor, Faculty of Education and Psychology, Shahid Beheshti University, Tehran, Iran
چکیده [English]

Aim: Considering the issue of having children is essential, due to its great impact on the family life of people in different periods of parenting. Therefore, the present study aimed to identify the changes in family life that are affected by having children. Method: 96 married men and women participants from Tehran, in different age groups (based on the principle of data saturation) and by purposeful sampling method, among people with newborns up to six years, parents with primary school children, parents with adolescents and parents with single and married adult children were selected and interviewed in-depth semi-structured to identify their experiences with childbearing. Also, the interviews were analyzed using the Van Manen method (interpretive phenomenological approach). Results: Topics include "Children entering life", "Come of age", "Starting school", "Adolescence: a bridge between childhood and adulthood", "Ending adolescence: entering the world of adulthood", and "Children leaving home" Were extracted. Conclusion: Finally, it can be concluded that the changes that occur in each period of family life, due to the influence of children, range from managing issues related to the children themselves to the effects of their presence on financial issues, marital relationships, social interactions and etc.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • Change
  • Family
  • Child
  • parenting

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